Do You Get Insulted When Someone You Consider Not in Your League Hits on You?

Someone who you consider below you that you would never go out with in a zillion years.


Well, this does not happen to me, as I walk a million miles an hour thru stores and pretty much give off an aura that I do not have time for your nonsense. I really don't even notice when someone is supposedly looking at me. Liam tells me, and I'm completely oblivious.

I don't think I'd find that insulting, perse, but moreso surprised that the person had enough balls to ask.
 
Like if a FUG hits on me... do i get OFFENDED?

Yeah.

And it's different to find someone attractive and to actually think they'd go out with you.

For example I went to college with this French guy who was so beautiful he literally took my breath away every time I saw him. I was so obsessed with him and used to plot ways to seduce him and e-mail a friend of mine pages of lust for this guy. Yet, I never even spoke to him as I knew he'd laugh in my face because he was out of my league.
 
Yeah.

And it's different to find someone attractive and to actually think they'd go out with you.

For example I went to college with this French guy who was so beautiful he literally took my breath away every time I saw him. I was so obsessed with him and used to plot ways to seduce him and e-mail a friend of mine pages of lust for this guy. Yet, I never even spoke to him as I knew he'd laugh in my face because he was out of my league.

Ouch. Are you like Quasimodo's twin sister? :unsure:

I wouldn't be offended. At least they are being straightforward enough to ask. No harm in that. Sure beats them being all creepy and stalkerish. Even if I find them unattractive, I could always politely say "no thank you."
 
Ouch. Are you like Quasimodo's twin sister? :unsure:

I wouldn't be offended. At least they are being straightforward enough to ask. No harm in that. Sure beats them being all creepy and stalkerish. Even if I find them unattractive, I could always politely say "no thank you."

I'm average looking at best, perhaps a bit below, but this guy was stunning.

I swear I didn't stalk him. I never followed him around or looked info on him, we both attended the same small (teeny tiny really) college so we regularly ran into each other.
 
What brings this subject up is that someone told me a story of this neighbor of hers who hit on her. She said the guy's in his 50s (she's 22) and lives with his sister. She told me that he's a huge drunk with so many DUIs that his liscence was taken away permantly. She's really upset (like steaming) and I laughed when she told me this which made her more angry.
 
I'm average looking at best, perhaps a bit below, but this guy was stunning.

I swear I didn't stalk him. I never followed him around or looked info on him, we both attended the same small (teeny tiny really) college so we regularly ran into each other.

I was only teasing. Don't be so hard on yourself.
 
Do You Get Insulted When Someone You Consider Not in Your League Hits on You?
I don't think that people are 'not in my league', so no.

In fact when I read this question, my jaw just about dropped ... "Not in your league" ... and then I started laughing hysterically at the thought that people actually think this way of themselves ... that other people are not in their league ... and it just got funnier and funnier by the minute thinking of it :24:

I would not want to go out with or belong to 'a league of people' that thought that others were not in 'their league'. IMO if people think this way ... all it says about them is that they are superficial, self absorbed and that their priorities are screwed up and that they have a lot more to learn about what life is really about.
 
Im with Elle on this one. As I often find myself as a matter of fact. :)

However I do respect everyone unless you give me a reason not to. So if you "step to me" than I will gladly give you the time of day. If you conversation is bleh and not worthy of my time then I will kindly remove myself. I would never consider someone out of my league or not in theirs. We are all human, no one person is better then the next not matter how beautiful they appear on the outside.
 
Back
Top