What would you be more likely to regret when your old?

[Ehrard85]

What would you be more likely to regret when your old:

1: Not having done to much crazy stuff when you where young?
2: Or having done to much crazy stuff?

And when I say crazy stuff, I don't mean killing people or selling organs, just something normal-ish people would get up to...

 

[HK]

Honestly, I wish I'd done more stupid stuff when I was younger, especially regarding boys. When I was 18 I spent a year mooning over this one bloke. I had three separate guys at different points that year who were totally DTF but nooo, I had to hold out for this other guy, who I did end up with but we broke up after three years anyway.

 

[Ehrard85]

Cool, thank you for the input. I agree, as every crazy experience has thought me so much more than the mundane ones, especially in the way of people you where with in comparison to those you weren't...

 

[HK]

It's not exactly a crazy experience but I wish I'd gone to uni as well - which might well have been a crazy experience, who knows

 

[Joe the meek]

I waited until my late 30's to get married and settle down.

No regrets whatsoever. You name it, I did it.

 

[AUFred]

I wish I had done more before children came along.

 

[porterjack]

je ne regrets rien

 

[dancingpotato]

Without a doubt the stuff I did NOT do. No contest.

 

[pjbleek]

wished I could have been a little more assertive in some things in life (going to college), getting a real job(12 years part-time and no benefits?)

 

[Thornless]

I only ever regret things I didn't do, be it for fear or putting it off and missing the chance.

 

[purpledove]

....missing out on good opportunities i know i should have jumped in but too shy/less assertive to do so.

I'm imagining am gonna regret not jumping into relationship with some great guys that I have let go due to my 'stubbornness' to trust again & my building a strong fortress to protect myself after divorce :tooth

 

[Pumpkin]

It's not exactly a crazy experience but I wish I'd gone to uni as well - which might well have been a crazy experience, who knows

It's not too late to go to uni

 

[HK]

It's not too late to go to uni

I think I'd feel out of place amongst hordes of 18 year olds my sister is 19 and her entire life appears to be drinking and dressing up as different members of the animal kingdom, followed by more drinking.

 

[pjbleek]

I think I'd feel out of place amongst hordes of 18 year olds my sister is 19 and her entire life appears to be drinking and dressing up as different members of the animal kingdom, followed by more drinking.

ahhh...youth...they can have it....lol

 

[Pumpkin]

I think I'd feel out of place amongst hordes of 18 year olds my sister is 19 and her entire life appears to be drinking and dressing up as different members of the animal kingdom, followed by more drinking.

haha yes I know...I am doing it! you get used to it so its not too bad

 

[Joe the meek]

Anyone here ever wake up the next day in a Mexican jail?:24:

 

[Tuffdisc]

What would you be more likely to regret when your old:

1: Not having done to much crazy stuff when you where young?
2: Or having done to much crazy stuff?

And when I say crazy stuff, I don't mean killing people or selling organs, just something normal-ish people would get up to...

I'm likely to regret I'm going to die :24:

 

[Dana]

Weird i dont remember this member...

 

[Joe the meek]

Weird i dont remember this member...

Well, clearly that means they don't exist.

 

[anathelia]

I wish I had done more before children came along.

Exactly this. At 23 years old, I definitely wouldn't say I'm old, but I had my first kid at 20, and while I do not regret having her, I regret not having the opportunity to live and be young more before I grew up.

I think I'd feel out of place amongst hordes of 18 year olds my sister is 19 and her entire life appears to be drinking and dressing up as different members of the animal kingdom, followed by more drinking.

Who says you can't drink and dress up as different members of the animal kingdom in your 20s?