Do you have your "personal space"

[Dana]

I was trying to talk to this woman last night and it's hard to talk to someone when your like 2 feet away and she was being a major bitch and said i was getting too close, then proceeded to tell me to go away. Ugh that fucking pissed me off. And an acquaintance was standing next to her. So do you have your personal boundaries? Personally i think it's on some childish crap. I wasn't being rude at all.

 

[freakofnature]

Touch me and die.

 

[Dana]

Touch me and die.

*pokes you* :24:

 

[freakofnature]

 

[Loyalist]

Yes I do.
Get in my " wheelhouse " then your there for a reason and it would be on.
I don't liked to be touched and don't ever poke me with your finger .
You'll get one warning then snap. Your finger, not my mind.

 

[freakofnature]

Yes I do.
Get in my " wheelhouse " then your there for a reason and it would be on.
I don't liked to be touched and don't ever poke me with your finger .
You'll one warning then snap. Your finger, not my mind.
But in your case Dana, based on what you said yeah she was a bitch.

 

[itsmeJonB]

Absolutely

 

[Loyalist]

:heylol lol lol

 

[dkwrtw]

Yeah, if someone's standing really close to me for no good reason it pisses me off, people should stay at least an arm's length away if at all possible IMO.

 

[Pumpkin]

Why in earth do you need to be right up in someones face to speak to them, I hate that especially if I don't know the person.

 

[GoldDust Woman]

2 feet away

Definitely crowding her space. 24 inches away... I'd have asked you to back away, too...

 

[HottyToddyChick]

Matt, family, and some friends I don't mind if they're so close we're touching shoulders.

If I don't know you or we're not super close, I don't need to be able to smell your breath, or know that you're wearing foundation-type makeup. I shouldn't be able to tell that.

 

[Dana]

Definitely crowding her space. 24 inches away... I'd have asked you to back away, too...

You type are funny... I was in a club and i don't like shouting.

 

[pjbleek]

but as a deaf person who can't hear distances it is better sometimes when people are within close proximity. two feet away sometimes can be a hindrance for me.

 

[GoldDust Woman]

she was being a major bitch and said i was getting too close

Why couldn't you just respect that? Sounds to me like she was uncomfortable with you being that close... and that makes her a bitch? Club or not... you gotta respect the wishes of others.

 

[GoldDust Woman]

You type are funny... I was in a club and i don't like shouting.

Funny? Errrrm, whatever...

You don't like shouting and she didn't like you in her space... so, you're right and she's wrong?

Btw, for what it's worth, an appropriate distance away is an arms length.

 

[Loyalist]

I would like to know what happened after he was told to back off ?

 

[retro]

Wow Dana... so anyone that does something that you don't understand or like is childish and/or a bitch? Give me a fucking break. With people that I don't know, I have serious personal space issues, as do a lot of people that I know. I really don't understand why you're having such an issue respecting how someone else feels. They want their space, give it to them... not very difficult. I can see why she'd ask you to go away if you weren't giving her any room.

 

[retro]

You type are funny... I was in a club and i don't like shouting.

Well maybe she doesn't mind it. Does everything have to be all about you all the time?

 

[Alien Allen]

how she asked him to move would determine if she was a bitch

if she bitched at him to move is is different than if she respectfully asked him to move

since we were not there I think Dana gets the benefit of the doubt on this one.