Horrible Nightmare

[Veronica]

I think the worse part about me and Joe not being together is when I have nightmares. Before I would wake joe and ask him to hold me. Last night I had a horrible nightmare and I had to try to take myself out of the dream.. it sucked. Not sure how I am gonna do this.. It sucks.

 

[Jersey]

you can come cuddle with me!!

 

[Tim]

Just pick up the phone and call one of us.... even if it's 3am

 

[NightWarrior]

Try holding onto your favorite pillow, it works for me sometimes. You will find someone when you are ready for them. Until then, heal thy self.

 

[GuesSAngel]

in my opinion you seem to be doing great so far

 

[Veronica]

I am doing much better. Alot of that has to do with yall. Its just the night time is hard now... I believe this is only my second bad NIGHTMARE since me and Joe seperated. Atleast Im not having one everynight. My sister callie and Jacob were in the bed with me, but I still didnt feel safe. Joe would just put his arm around me and I would feel protected and secure.. Its hard to explain. I know that will get better once I find someone else.

Steve, I dont have anything like that. I guess I need to find something.

 

[Maritxu]

You're strong V, and you know it. Hold your pillow and call a friend, you'll be ok.

 

[sundvlfn88]

Sorry to hear about your nightmares. I hope you don't have to experience them too often. I feel for you V.

 

[Mrs Behavin]

Shit I wish my husband would hold me when I have nightmares (I dont too often) but geesh he acts all irriatated and gets all huffy and puffy.

 

[CRZY72004]

come here I'll give all of you lady's a big hug:smiley31:

 

[NightWarrior]

Shit I wish my husband would hold me when I have nightmares (I dont too often) but geesh he acts all irriatated and gets all huffy and puffy.

I'll fill in when needed.

 

[hhayes]

sorry to hear V. i'll hold you

 

[GuesSAngel]

I am doing much better. Alot of that has to do with yall. Its just the night time is hard now... I believe this is only my second bad NIGHTMARE since me and Joe seperated. Atleast Im not having one everynight. My sister callie and Jacob were in the bed with me, but I still didnt feel safe. Joe would just put his arm around me and I would feel protected and secure.. Its hard to explain. I know that will get better once I find someone else.

Steve, I dont have anything like that. I guess I need to find something.

I know what you mean, it's that sense of security that only one person can provide...you'll find that again!

 

[GraceAbounds]

Those long body pillows helped me when my husband was gone for extended periods of time due to work. Also those tapes that sound like ocean waves ... very soothing.

It is a very uncomfortable feeling to have a nightmare and wake wanting someone to put their arm around you. I understand. Know that many here are with you in spirit. Hope you are feeling better and if need be take up the offers for phone calls at 3am. A friendly voice is almost as good as a hug many times. Blessings to you.

Fondly,
Grace

 

[AUDRAA]

I understand what youre feeling totally V and a pillow doesnt always do the trick Steve trust me I have one, its the actual touch that you need and the someone that you need to hear breathing next to you that makes you feel safe that helps. V seriously though hun if you need someone to talk to in the middle of the night call me, Im always here for you. You know Im going through the same things right now, hell it might be happening at the same time remember out convo the other day?