Cheating?

[GuesSAngel]

Are you guys in the same room answering each other on this site.. :24:

lol no, at the time he was at work and i was at home

 

[Veronica]

As far as Cain goes... I suppose that innocent until proven guilty just went out the window in your world.

On cheating... I did it, and I'm not proud of it. Mine was a bit different than going out and sleeping with someone else though, by necessarily better, but different. However, I don't consider myself to have, "corrupt morals" because of it... That's a judgement that isn't fair to put on people without knowing the details of their specific situation. I suppose that comment might be easier to make in regards to people that do it on a regular basis, or multiple times after their spouse found out. It was a mistake that I made due to a bad marriage, and while some good things actually came about because of it, they still might have happened if I had gone about things properly. But, the past is in the past at this point.

I guess I just wanted to provide a counter argument I the blanket judgements that people are throwing out in this thread.

i guess i mean it more to the repeat offenders.. the ones that do it over and over again and dont care.

 

[Codrus]

i know all too well how it can be.

I work with 90 % men .. And I would say about 85-90% of those guys CHEAT on their wives frequently. It makes me sick to my stomach.

hey V,..could i get the phone numbers of the wives who get cheated on? ...hmmmmplease

 

[Veronica]

I would TOTALLY do that if there was a way I wouldnt get caught! LOL

 

[Codrus]

I would TOTALLY do that if there was a way I wouldnt get caught! LOL

no worries about that...im just a stranger who wants to offer them..."a shoulder to cry on"

 

[Natasha]

I haven't read the entire thread, but I think I'll recuse myself from it since I have, at one time in my life, been guilty (not of cheating on my significant other, though...but the person I was w/ was married at the time).

 

[Veronica]

Im not talking about the ones that they sleep w/.. Im talking about the married folks. LOL

 

[Natasha]

Im not talking about the ones that they sleep w/.. Im talking about the married folks. LOL

I know...but when you know someone is married they should be off-limits to you as well, even though you have no obligation to the spouse.

 

[Rawrrr]

Not only marriage. If you're even living together, or have ANY form of committment, it isnt so much corrupt morals as just plain cruel. However, if you cannot honor your commitment and promises to the person you claim to love the most, there are most likely bound to be other personality flaws that will seep into other areas of your life. Not always, just most likely.

 

[The Doc]

Same shit in the Army. I used to be in a Support battalion, with lots of female soldiers. Most of them habitually cheated on their spouses. Being in an all-male unit not, i notice some guys do cheat on their spouses but not nearly as many as the females do. The reality is alot of army marriages are just for BAH and FSP money. Its contract marriage therefore no one loved anyone to begin with. The other half of marriages get destroyed during the deployments to iraq/afghanistan. It sucks to be shitting in a hole for 6 months, wearing the same clothes for weeks, havent showered in a while then you get a letter from your wife saying she is taking the kids and leaving you.

 

[anathelia]

Same shit in the Army. I used to be in a Support battalion, with lots of female soldiers. Most of them habitually cheated on their spouses. Being in an all-male unit not, i notice some guys do cheat on their spouses but not nearly as many as the females do. The reality is alot of army marriages are just for BAH and FSP money. Its contract marriage therefore no one loved anyone to begin with. The other half of marriages get destroyed during the deployments to iraq/afghanistan. It sucks to be shitting in a hole for 6 months, wearing the same clothes for weeks, havent showered in a while then you get a letter from your wife saying she is taking the kids and leaving you.

On that note, I just recently found out that a friend of mine who's been deployed in Iraq for the last year and got married about two or three months before he left will be coming home to divorce papers because his "wife" was sleeping around the whole time he was gone and was pretty much only married to him for the benefits and so she'd have a place to live in NY.

I'd like to punch the bitch in the face. I could never see doing that to someone, especially under those circumstances. It could also be that I just hate her in general.

 

[The Doc]

On that note, I just recently found out that a friend of mine who's been deployed in Iraq for the last year and got married about two or three months before he left will be coming home to divorce papers because his "wife" was sleeping around the whole time he was gone and was pretty much only married to him for the benefits and so she'd have a place to live in NY.

I'd like to punch the bitch in the face. I could never see doing that to someone, especially under those circumstances. It could also be that I just hate her in general.

Thats extreamly common. Within my battalion there is a policy where they discourage getting married 6 months before a deployment. The First Seargent and Commander will usually talk to you. I know more then 40 soldiers whose wives divorced them over the course of our tour in Afghanistan.

 

[porterjack]

Thats extreamly common. Within my battalion there is a policy where they discourage getting married 6 months before a deployment. The First Seargent and Commander will usually talk to you. I know more then 40 soldiers whose wives divorced them over the course of our tour in Afghanistan.

a simple prenuptial contract ( à la hollywood) would suffice

 

[darkcgi]

It was common to see that when I was in the Marines

 

[The Doc]

a simple prenuptial contract ( à la hollywood) would suffice

A women who was truly out to fuck you over wouldent ever sign that. A lot of theese guys get married and get their new wives pregnant because they might die. Pulling out a pre-nup is usually percieved by the women as "He doesnt trust me, believe this marriage would last, or thinks I am a gold digger" most of theese women are young also. Im sure a lot of them didnt have the original intent to cheat on their husbands.. but they are usually young and stupid.

 

[darkcgi]

ladys , is alone time cheating

 

[Natasha]

ladys , is alone time cheating

Ummmmm, no.

 

[BadBoy]

Ummmmm, no.

Yes it is. If you have time to be playing with the vajay jay, you need to be giving your man more attention. :ninja

 

[HK]

Yes it is. If you have time to be playing with the vajay jay, you need to be giving your man more attention. :ninja

Yeah but.... sometimes you just want a quick one on the sofa while he's upstairs sleeping because you know you can get like 3-4 orgasms before he wakes up...

 

[Natasha]

Yes it is. If you have time to be playing with the vajay jay, you need to be giving your man more attention. :ninja

LMFAO...wow, that initial question flew right over my head. I didn't take it that way AT ALL. I still don't call that cheating...but I personally would rather let someone else play w/ it for me, anyway...IJS